What makes a decision better? And why use “better” instead of “good” or “great”?
Decisions look good only when measured against something that is collectively perceived to be good. You have to measure up to someone else’s yardstick.
When we hear: that was a good decision, there are very few people out there who will say it keeping our life in mind. It’s usually from their point of reference.
“You did good (because you met my expectations).”
“That was a great decision (because I would have done the same).”
Good or great decisions come from population thinking, they reflect what’s acceptable or admired by the crowd. If your life is about making decisions that are in the service of external validation, meeting the norm, or short-termism, then yes – good/great decisions are just that: good/great.
But…
Meaningful change… change that prioritizes growth, well-being, and contentment comes from making better decisions.
When Does A Decision Become A Better Decision?
A decision is better when it serves you. You’re selfish enough to prioritize your well-being.
And I don’t mean “selfish” in the usual sense. Making decisions that serve your needs and allow you to live your life on your terms is not selfishness – it’s awareness.
A decision appears selfish (in the usual sense) when it is demanding that someone else live their life to suit your preferences, your KPIs, your ego, your goals, your pleasure.
And…
A decision is better when you are comfortable with the consequences. Because you’ve focused more on what you’re letting go than on what you’ve chosen to do.
Every decision, if you pause and reflect, carries regrets. The only question is: are you at peace with it, or does it still sting?
Making a decision is easy. Standing by it with clarity and embracing the regret it will bring with conviction is hard.
Better decisions are individualistic thinking. They become good or great from your point of reference, knowing fully well they are aligned with your values, needs, and long-termism.
So… make better decisions. Not good by someone else’s standards, but good enough for you, your values, your clarity.
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